Many times, pedophiles have a huge fear around coming out as a pedophile to friends and loved ones. Many of us have heard the horror stories: Pedophiles getting outed, kicked out of the house, losing jobs, friends, family, even committing suicide. So, we must ask the question… What Do Most Coming Outs Look Like? Absolutely nothing … Continue reading The Complexities Of A Pedophile Coming Out
This is Pride Month, and the LGBTQ+ community is celebrating, asking for your help in accepting them as human beings. Why? Because they never chose their attractions, and they deserve to be socially accepted without being hated, maligned, beaten, etc. In case you do not know what Pride Month is all about, I did some … Continue reading LGBTQ+… And Pedophiles?
There are many concerns that the MAP (Minor Attracted Person) community faces. Often, those concerns have far more to do with stigma than they do with being attracted to minors. But how can that be? Well, take a little trip with me for a moment. You read news articles where they use the word “pedophile” … Continue reading Challenging Negative Thoughts In The MAP Community
Someone recently messaged me on Twitter with many questions that I thought would make a great article. Before I get started, I want to open the door: My handle on Twitter is TNF_13 the same as here, so feel free to DM me on Twitter if you have questions you would like answered. Disclaimer: None … Continue reading Readers Write: Sexual Attraction, Protecting Kids, Motivations For Abuse
For those who may not know, I am one of the rare pedophiles that came forward for professional help. A little over five years ago now, I had worked myself into a mental place where I hated my attractions because of being abused, and I thought my attraction meant I would hurt a child. So, … Continue reading Yes, I Did “Get help!” Already
Several times, I have contacted Snopes to tell them their fact-checks on pedophilia lack merit. Each time, I have told them that pedophilia is not the sexual abuse of a child, but the sexual attraction to children. Each time I see a new Snopes article discussing pedophilia, they keep making the same mistake. So, what … Continue reading Fact-Checking Snopes’ Fact-Check On Pedophilia
Before I begin this, I need to share with you the very beginning of my journey as an advocate. In the beginning, I relied on a website that seemed to have some solid information on helping those with pedophilia. The website stated that 95% of child sexual abuse is preventable because 95% of child molesters … Continue reading Dolls, Manga, And Fictional Outlets For Pedophiles