This is Pride Month, and the LGBTQ+ community is celebrating, asking for your help in accepting them as human beings. Why? Because they never chose their attractions, and they deserve to be socially accepted without being hated, maligned, beaten, etc. In case you do not know what Pride Month is all about, I did some … Continue reading LGBTQ+… And Pedophiles?
By now, you may have heard the news that Nathan Larson, who is (safely, we can say was, at this point) a Virginian congressional candidate, has certain views about child sexual abuse, rape, and the sexual exploitation of children that are enough to make anyone sick to their stomach. And yes, they have been confirmed. … Continue reading Why Nathan Larson Does Not Represent Most Pedophiles
I have been on Twitter for a long time, and I have seen a range of arguments being presented to pedophiles. Chances are, if you are arguing with me, I have addressed what you have said before. Some of your points are logical, some are not, and some are based in a misunderstanding of the … Continue reading Your Arguments Against Pedophiles… DEBUNKED!
There are many concerns that the MAP (Minor Attracted Person) community faces. Often, those concerns have far more to do with stigma than they do with being attracted to minors. But how can that be? Well, take a little trip with me for a moment. You read news articles where they use the word “pedophile” … Continue reading Challenging Negative Thoughts In The MAP Community
Someone recently messaged me on Twitter with many questions that I thought would make a great article. Before I get started, I want to open the door: My handle on Twitter is TNF_13 the same as here, so feel free to DM me on Twitter if you have questions you would like answered. Disclaimer: None … Continue reading Readers Write: Sexual Attraction, Protecting Kids, Motivations For Abuse
For those who may not know, I am one of the rare pedophiles that came forward for professional help. A little over five years ago now, I had worked myself into a mental place where I hated my attractions because of being abused, and I thought my attraction meant I would hurt a child. So, … Continue reading Yes, I Did “Get help!” Already
Sex addiction. It sounds legitimate, right? We all know that sex can seem like a drug, sometimes, so it makes sense that we can be addicted to sex, right? I would like to present a case for why sex addiction — and frankly any addiction — can easily turn into an excuse for poor behavior, and avoids looking at … Continue reading Sex Addiction, Stigma, And Self-Hate